When I drive I tend to observe the world around me…sometimes
more than I pay attention to where I am going (another topic). I simply
observe. Change, people, places of interest, etc. I find myself travelling more
lately than the past several years combined. More new clients (that’s a good
thing), more meetings, and maintaining a long distance relationship (also a
good thing).
I was coming home from a trip driving on a 2 lane country
road and observed a buzzard in the middle of the oncoming lane picking at the
bones of…another buzzard. I had questions:- Are buzzards cannibals?
- Are you smart enough to get out of the road when another car comes by? Your dinner wasn’t.
On that same trip…there I was minding my own business when a
stone shot up and put a bullet hole in my windshield. I immediately called my
insurance agent (don’t look up phone numbers while you are driving!) to ask if
I was covered for stone chips. My agent (whom I don’t really care for) replied,
“No, your policy doesn’t cover chip repair…BUT, if you get the whole windshield
replaced, we will waive the deductible and cover the repair.” WTF…You won’t pay
$50 for a stone chip repair, but you will
pay $350 to replace a windshield? I’m
looking for a new insurance company.
I had several meetings to attend today and on my way to the
first one, I was driving along a busy 8 lane boulevard and saw a woman sitting in
the median. By sitting I mean she was in a Hoveround…a personal scooter. Moreover,
she was wearing a ¾ length mink coat at 9:30AM. I had more questions:
- Would PETA members dare throw blood on an ambulatory person wearing a fur?
- Where are you going?
- Did Medicare pay for your scooter?
- If yes, who paid for the fur coat?
On the way back to the office I was on that same 8 lane
boulevard and pulled up next to a mini-van that was vibrating with the sounds
of hip-hop music playing at the threshold of pain. My first reaction was to think,
“OH goodness, I HATE this! Please turn that down.” Then I looked across at the
driver. It was a WHITE, thirty-something soccer mom that was bopping to the
tunes. I have no questions…I’m still trying to wrap my head around associating
what I heard with what I saw. Rock on Mama!
On a final note (and totally unrelated) I had an opportunity
to observe something online that gave me pause for thought. I have been following
Lisa Brandel’s blog for more than 2 years and have always appreciated the depth
and eloquence of her writing. The blog, The Widow Lady is indeed written by a
widow, but the content is directed to patients, care-givers and survivors
equally. Lisa shares her deeply profound thoughts in a way that invites readers
to think and respond whether they agree or not.
The point to this story is that in Lisa’s last post, a
gentleman from the UK who himself is in the throes of prostate cancer
treatments found her blog and was inspired to feature her on his blog http://chrisluck.net/blog/ extoling the inspiration
that Lisa had offered him on his journey. As bloggers, we put our ideas,
thoughts and opinions in a global repository hoping to catch the interest of
anyone…and we do. What an incredible responsibility! Let us take care to share
for the health and entertainment of all who might read what we have to say.
Lisa is a pioneer in this quest.
I'm just saying





























18 comments:
I feel the weight of my responsibility Every time I put my fingers on the keys. I take it seriously, very much so, if I hold the hearts of the hurting in my hands, they should always be tender and true. <3 _/\_ Namaste Ron Reed...you never fail to make us think and laugh, and that is a gift. I love you! *huggles*
P.S. You should have gotten a new wind shield and a new agent! Just say'n LOL! *huggles*
You and Lisa add a great deal of entertainment and education to the www. I for one appreciate both of you. And personally I would of smashed the windscreen just so they'd pay up!
A
Great post and Lisa is a favorite of mine. <3
The soccer mom was probably a grown up wanna be, I know several. (shakes head)
Wonderful post Ron. First, I believe the buzzard made it out of the way??? Secondly, I would have had my windshield replaced and then found another company to go with. Thirdly...the soccer mom? Well, can't say that I haven't done that with a load of kids in my car :) And lastly, Lisa. Lisa's blog is a must read. She shares her deepest emotions at a very real level. Both of you are great bloggers!
Lisa - When I was a fresh blogger you encouraged me to find my voice and write and I will always appreciate your nudging and support. You are a beautiful person and a phenomenal author who truly has made a difference globally. Keep it up! I love you too...with all my heart.
Alex - You are top shelf with me as well. You are an untiring supporter of the blogosphere and a good mate as well ;)
Jan - Wana be or not...that was my first hip-hop, soccer mom sighting...and it was scary ;)
Mary - I hope the buzzard made it...I really do. Insurance companies make me crazy because we all pay for their waste. Soccer moms...I never did get it...I WAS a soccer mom (sort of) and I still don't get it ;)
To all - Lisa is a gem we should all be grateful for...just saying.
I found you and Lisa at the same time and since then I have been your followers more like stalker! Anyway you two compliment each other beautifully....
BTW how is your nose doing? Now that I have that off my chest I can proceed further...
Overall bureaucracy in any world sucks! Replace the windshield if that is their policy ... I could write my own experience with USCIS paper work... maybe one day!
Loved this post! I am familiar with the steady stream of thoughts things. Thanks for sharing.
Savira - I have to think about the nose thing...but glad you got it off your chest...oh wait, that didn't sound right.
Lisa is a gem!
Thank you for your support...you are an inspiration indeed!
Middle Child - Thanks for stopping by...yah, the brain rarely finds neutral ;)
I totally can relate to this post! I drive around much in the same way and often wonder about things I encounter. As someone said earlier, I also seemed to find you and Lisa at the same time and am glad I did! Must have been kismet.
All the best to you both!
Jen the wandering one
Jen - Bless you! You are on a tremendous layered journey and all the world is your home...A nomad worth following. Thank you for your kind words.
I find myself observing all the time especially while traveling or driving, somehow I don't quite think of them as the same thing.
I don't think the buzzard cared because it was probably hungry; that applies to the question "are they cannibals" and "is it smart enough to get out of the road."
Mink coats and scooters are in fashion right now like Escalades and food stamps.
I could very easily come off as a white 30 something year old, I also listen to hip hop. Then again I listen to many genres and will sing loudly and rock out while driving or traveling, still not the same thing. I try to refrain from vulgar lyrics while my kids are in the vehicle with me but, then again my kids love when I freestyle and use obscenities. They giggle, I giggle, I curse, they censor...it's how we do it.
Great post and I too love the Widow Lady she is like the older, errr younger sister I never... I mean don't have anymore.
Jen - As for the soccer mom and hip hop...I'm sure there are many...I've just never seen one in the wild:)
Who couldn't love Lisa. She is so passionate about helping and supporting so many people, and we all benefit from it.
That bloke at the insurance company is a nob. You should just lob a brick at the windscreen and get it done free.
I laughed at your observations on your journeys - your brain truly does work in a weird way!! And you are so right about Lisa - she has such a talent for dealing with delicate situations in such an insightful way.
Annie - Glad you came over. A nob indeed. I payed for the chip repair and will change insurance companies next round.
Lisa is indeed a talent...and a GREAT person. We are all lucky to have her in our lives.
Be well,
Ron
Ok...on the whole buzzard thing. No they are not smart. They are not fast. They don't have the intellect bestowed on a rock. More than once we have been blazing down the road over a hill and around a corner and there is one sitting there. Luckily we haven't hit one because I'm fairly sure they would have caused a lot of damage to the vehicles. Stupid things.
As for PETA, ummm...yeah. That's all I got to say.
And, as for my sister, she's one of the best human beings that I have the privlege to know and love. She's in inspiration to me every day in more ways than she could ever begin to know.
I kinda love you a little too, but I don't want you to get a big head or anything. =-p
Love your observations, esp the woman in the mink. Very funny!! I needed a chuckle and am sure glad I stopped by. We bloggers do indeed have the responsibility of taking care of each other either through humor, inspiration, art, or caring words.
Jewell - I grew up on farms and saw a lot of buzzards as a kid. Yep, they are dumb. I put them right there with ground hogs ;). Don't worry I won't get a big head...and I am sort of, kinda like you too ;)
Mary - You are right. Blogging is a new form of literature and I do see it as a responsibility. What we say will exist as a historical archive for the world to see. It should be entertaining without presumption...if not accurate ;)
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